LIFE: What is it and how to live it?

Written by Hussein Waiyaki

“We have two lives, and the second one begins when we realize we only have one” - Confucius
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Life tends to pass by without notice, ensnared in the continuous cycle of routines, responsibilities, and distractions. We pursue goals, gather possessions, and lose ourselves in the chaos, often overlooking the transient nature of our lives. Then, one day, we come to realize this life is not endless. We cannot count on a tomorrow. It is in that significant moment of awareness that our second life commences.

This realization frequently occurs when we encounter loss, challenges, or the stark clarity of time slipping away. It is not about remorse; it is about perceiving life anew. Suddenly, the aspects we once considered crucial—titles, status, trivial disputes—diminish in significance. What becomes paramount is the raw, beautiful, irreplaceable experience of being alive.

In this second life, everything transforms. You begin to live purposefully. You cease to defer happiness for "someday" and start discovering joy in the present moment. You realize that life is not about possessing everything—it is about cherishing the small, transient moments that render it remarkable: the warmth of a sunrise, the laughter of a cherished one, the fulfillment of following your passions.

You also learn to release. Release grudges, harmful relationships, and the burden of others’ expectations. You recognize that your time and energy are your most valuable resources, and you choose to allocate them wisely. There is newfound liberty in saying "no" to what does not nourish your spirit and "yes" to that which truly matters.

Most importantly, in this second life, you start to foster deeper connections—with yourself, with others, and with the universe around you. You no longer shy away from loving wholeheartedly, dreaming fearlessly, and taking chances, because you have realized that the greatest failure is not trying at all. You embrace the vulnerability of being human and allow yourself to be seen for your true self.

This is not to imply that the journey is without obstacles. Growth can be uncomfortable, and change demands bravery. However, in your second life, you comprehend that the unease of shedding old patterns is significantly outweighed by the joy of living authentically. You understand that every moment, even the painful ones, holds a lesson and an opportunity to evolve.

So, if you have yet to embark on your second life, this is your invitation. Take a deep breath. Assess your life from a new angle. Ask yourself: If I had only one more day, week, or year, how would I choose to spend it? Who would I share it with? What would truly count?

Do not wait for tomorrow to start living completely.

Your second life begins the moment you commit to honoring the one you have.

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